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Leadership Lessons from the Flamenco Stage

Recently, I danced in a Flamenco theatre show in front of an audience of 250 people, and I completely messed up…! And from that mess, came this insight about navigating change that I just couldn’t wait to share with you. 

Leadership isn’t just something you do — it’s something you embody.

It’s how you show up in the face of change, challenge, and uncertainty.

It’s how you move forward after a setback.

It’s how you hold your vision when the path ahead is still unfolding.

And sometimes, the best metaphor for leadership doesn’t come from a boardroom — it comes from the stage!

At the beginning of my dance everything was going super well. Hundreds of hours of technical drills and umpteen rehearsals were producing great results!!

Until… the very end of the dance. Within the last couple of minutes of my number, I got distracted. 

And that’s when things started to unravel very quickly. It was like pulling on a loose thread in a sweater—what starts as a small tug turns into the whole thing coming apart in your hands.

To my horror, I realized that I was the ONLY person in the entire group of 12 dancers, who was literally dancing to the beat of her own drum. I had forgotten where I was in the choreography and I was doing something completely different than the rest of the group…! 

But the cool thing was, I didn’t panic. 

I kept dancing.

Because that’s all you can do when life or business throws the unexpected your way.

Just. Keep. Going.

Leadership is Learning to Dance with Change

As a semi-professional flamenco dancer, I know this truth with every cell in my body:

  • A live performance is never perfect.
  • A live performance is alive.

Costumes slip. Lighting shifts. Musicians improvise. Your heel hits the floor a half-second off.

And the show must go on.

Dancers don’t stop and panic. They adjust, adapt, and respond. They stay connected to the rhythm, to each other, and to themselves. That’s what brings the performance to life.

Leadership is the same.

Things rarely go 100% to plan. The market shifts. A team member leaves. A launch flops.

The question isn’t, “Did everything go right?”

The question is, “Can I stay present and respond with purpose?”

Embodying leadership means moving with change — not against it.

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What some clients say:

“We wanted to reach out to someone who would help us get clarity on our company’s direction. Michela helped us mine our strategy vs our daily operations to map the plan for the next few years. We were listened to and kept on task to get the strategy done. We still refer to that work when we feel we are off course. It is the foundation of our growth plans.” – Gary S.

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About Michela Quilici

Michela Quilici is an engaging professional speaker, international bestselling author, and award-winning entrepreneur. With over two decades as a Business & Leadership Coach and Consultant, she helps high-achieving leaders and business owners bridge the gap to their next level of growth—focusing on strategy, communication, and leadership.

Her mission is to ignite leaders to unlock their potential and businesses to grow. She is passionate about creating roadmaps that ignite leaders to take inspired action to navigate their growth on purpose using a soul-fed, self-led, strategy-fueled approach.

She has been featured in Forbes, USA Weekly, and Canadian Living Magazine, is a Forbes Coaches Council member, and serves as the official speaker coach for TEDx VU Amsterdam 2025. Recognized as Speaker of the Year 2025 (Business Growth & Self-Leadership), Michela delivers transformative experiences that ignite clarity, confidence, and action.